Where to Spend and Where to Save
- Tricia Bachewich
- May 4
- 2 min read
Weddings are magical, but let’s be real, they can also be a serious investment. One of the biggest challenges couples face is figuring out where to put their budget for the most impact. The truth? Not everything needs to be top shelf, but some elements are worth the splurge.
Here’s our guide to where to spend and where to save so you can create a celebration that’s beautiful, meaningful, and financially stress-free.
Photo: Kass Donaldson
Where to Spend
1. Photography & Videography
Your flowers will wilt, the cake will be eaten, and the music will fade, but your photos and video are forever. Skilled professionals will capture not just the details, but the emotion of the day.
Why it’s worth it: You’ll relive your wedding for years to come through these memories.
2. Experienced Planner or Coordinator
A great planner will save you time, reduce stress, and often even save you money by negotiating with vendors and avoiding costly mistakes.
Why it’s worth it: Peace of mind and a seamless day are priceless.
3. Catering & Bar Service
Guests remember two things: How they felt and what they ate. Good food and attentive service make for happy guests and a great atmosphere.
Why it’s worth it: A thoughtfully curated menu elevates the entire experience.
4. Venue Ambiance
The right venue can set the tone for your wedding without needing much extra décor.
Why it’s worth it: Investing in a beautiful, functional space often means you’ll spend less on transforming it.
Where to Save
1. Stationery Extras
While invitations are important, not every element needs to be printed. Consider digital RSVPs or simpler designs without costly add-ons like multiple enclosure cards or specialty printing.
How to save: Mix printed invitations with a wedding website for extra details.
2. Guest Favors
Many favors end up forgotten on tables. Instead, focus on meaningful or edible takeaways, or skip them altogether and invest that budget elsewhere.
How to save: Offer a late-night snack instead of a keepsake.
3. Décor Rentals
Instead of buying, rent larger items like candles, vases, or linens. You’ll get a polished look without storage headaches after the wedding.
How to save: Choose multi-purpose décor that can be repurposed from ceremony to reception.
4. Wedding Cake Size
A stunning cake is beautiful in photos, but you don’t need a massive multi-tier version for every guest.
How to save: Have a small “display” cake for cutting photos and serve sheet cake from the kitchen.
Photo: Kass Donaldson
Final Thought: The smartest budgets balance splurges and savings in a way that reflects your priorities. Spend where it matters most to you, save where it won’t impact the guest experience, and remember the best weddings are about love, connection, and joy.












