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  • Writer's pictureTricia Bachewich

Top Things We've Seen Go Wrong on the Wedding Day

Your wedding day is one of the most significant moments of your life, a day filled with love, joy, and celebration. However, despite meticulous planning and preparation, things can sometimes go wrong. In this blog post, we're highlighting some of the top things we've seen go wrong on the wedding day, along with advice on how to avoid these pitfalls.

1. Not Hiring Professionals

While it might be tempting to save some money by enlisting friends or family to take on key roles like DJ or photographer, it's important to remember that these roles require specialized skills and experience. Your college buddy might be great at creating playlists, but that doesn't translate to being a skilled wedding DJ. Similarly, your friend with an eye for Instagram-worthy shots might not possess the expertise needed to capture the essence of your wedding day. Professional vendors bring professionalism, reliability, and the ability to handle unexpected situations, ensuring your day goes smoothly.

2. Fires

It might sound like something out of a movie, but accidents can happen on your wedding day. From votives causing actual fires due to being too short and windy conditions, to overcrowded tables leading to candles catching the silk flowers on fire, it's important to consider potential safety hazards. Proper planning, awareness of your surroundings, and discussing potential risks with your venue coordinator can help prevent accidents from taking away from your special day.

3. Making Plans Before Setting a Budget

Pinterest boards and wedding inspiration can spark excitement and creativity, but diving into planning without setting a budget can lead to disappointment and financial stress. It's essential to establish a realistic budget early in the planning process. This budget will guide your decisions and help you prioritize what's most important to you. Without a budget in place, you might fall in love with a venue or vendor that's out of your financial reach.

4. Not Having an Unplugged Ceremony

In our digital age, it's become commonplace for guests to whip out their smartphones and tablets to capture every moment. However, this can detract from the genuine experience of the ceremony. We have seen guests be in the way of the professional photographer to try to get their own photos. Consider having an unplugged ceremony, where guests are politely asked to put away their devices and be fully present in the moment. This not only ensures that your professional photographer's shots won't be obstructed by screens but also encourages your loved ones to truly engage in the ceremony.

5. Not Limiting Toasts and Open Mics

While toasts and open microphone sessions can be heartwarming and entertaining, they can also lead to awkward or even inappropriate moments. Limit the number of toasts and allocate a specific time frame to avoid the reception turning into a lengthy series of speeches. This way, you'll strike a balance between heartfelt moments and keeping the party atmosphere alive.

6. Wedding Dress Mishaps

Your wedding dress is a central element of your day, but it's also a delicate one. From a zipper malfunction to a tear on the dance floor, mishaps can happen. Prepare for the unexpected by having a small emergency kit on hand that includes items like safety pins, fashion tape, and a mini sewing kit. Enlist a bridesmaid or trusted friend to be your designated dress helper throughout the day.

7. Technical Glitches

Technology can be both a blessing and a curse. A moment that's particularly heartwarming, like the first dance or father-daughter dance, can be disrupted if a technical glitch occurs. If you're relying on equipment such as generators or sound systems, make sure they're properly tested and maintained to avoid interruptions during crucial moments.

In conclusion, while no wedding day is completely immune to unexpected challenges, many mishaps can be prevented or minimized with thorough planning and professional expertise. Remember to hire experienced vendors, set a budget before diving into planning, prioritize safety, and be prepared for potential hiccups and go with the flow. By focusing on the joy and love of the day, you'll create beautiful memories that will last a lifetime no matter what may come your way!

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